From the category archives:

Transracial Families

Transracial Parenting: Race Talk = Mandatory

April 8, 2011

One of the more “popular” classes I teach is on parenting transracially. The class typically begins quietly, but soon becomes rather lively with a lot of great introspection, sharing and interaction. To date, the parents I have worked with have been Caucasian. Their children have been adopted domestically and internationally, and they do not “match” [...]

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The Parenting Summit

February 27, 2011

I’m excited to be speaking at The Parenting Summit—a free online event featuring video messages from a number of leading parenting and family experts. Each speaker will share a five to twenty minute recorded video message with tips and advice on becoming a more effective parent.
Among the many topics are Adoption 101, Raising CEO Kids, [...]

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Pass It On

February 17, 2011

Many outside the transracial family’s inner and closely related outer circle don’t see a family. They see mismatched adults and children, typically white parents and non-white kids. On top of that, even in today’s efforts to be “politically correct,” many people miss the mark by making insensitive comments or asking intrusive questions, although sometimes well-meaning, [...]

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Romancing the Culture

February 11, 2011

Parents who adopted internationally used to be told that assimilation was best. It was believed that love would be enough and that the child, adopted from another country and often of a different race, would eventually become part of, assimilated into, the majority culture. To focus or mention differences might create extreme discomfort and issues [...]

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A Place to Begin

January 19, 2011

One of the classes I teach addresses transracial parenting. Within the framework of this class we discuss strategies for dealing with racism. Even in this progressive year of 2011, racism, like bias, stereotyping and discrimination, is everywhere.
Racism is personal; it is also institutional. Racism segregates individuals into castes and can damage souls. Racism strips people [...]

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Looking Back to Look Forward

January 14, 2011

Adolescence, the period of physical and psychological development that transitions humans from puberty into maturity, roughly the ages of eleven through nineteen, a word and time laden with emotional memories for many of us.
Often adolescence was the hallmark of being uncomfortable “in our skin” as hormones started to riot and our bodies and emotions began [...]

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