From the monthly archives:

September 2010

Transracial Parenting: Helping Your Child with Their Racial Identity and Consciousness

September 30, 2010

If you have adopted transracially you have adopted across race, adopted a child who is a different race than you. The first step in helping your child is to understand that you cannot “share” your child’s culture or race.
What you can do is make sure your child has the connection to the communities from which [...]

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Loss: The Well of Grief

September 21, 2010

The basic trauma of every single adoption is loss. No matter how young a child is when they join their adoptive family, they have suffered loss—of their birth mother, birth history, and possibly birth father, birth siblings and culture. Loss brings about grief and for many, depending on the situation and child, other issues.
One of [...]

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Does Your Child Have a Teacher New to Adoption?

September 13, 2010

Inspired by my friend and collegue Jenny Kales, aka “The Nut-free Mom,” who wrote a wonderful post about having a teacher who has not dealt with allergies, I’ve written on how adoptive parents can approach teachers who have little or no exposure to adoption.  Here’s what you can do:
Introduce yourself, preferably person-to-person. You can write a letter, [...]

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Triggers: School

September 1, 2010

The new school year heralds a clean slate, an opportunity to address the challenges and build on the successes from the past year(s). But a new school year can also take on added significance, especially if your child is moving into a new section; say from elementary to middle school or changing buildings or schools. 
 
School [...]

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